I give my friends boners. (You’re welcome.)

Yesterday I found myself sexting three men at the same time — perhaps the only reason I have the balls to put “good multi-tasker” on my resume. It wasn’t necessarily my intention to initiate dirty talk with each one, but I was born with a preternatural ability to construct sentences almost entirely composed of sexual innuendos. Everything I say is overtly suggestive. What can I say? It’s a gift.  

It is so common for me to be slangin’ smut that sometimes I’m oblivious to the fact that I may be slowly encouraging, nay erecting a boner on the other end of the conversation. In fact, I have multiple times had a man mention that we had been sexting and laughed to myself, “You think this is sexting? Honey, this ain’t shit.” This is just how I communicate: my thoughts are filtered through a filthy mind and then come out of my mouth. You see? 

I’m pretty sure that everyone reading this has participated in this act (many of which with me personally), but in an effort to be thorough, let’s define the term, shall we? Has the word sexting made it into the dictionary yet? Probably, yes, but for this piece lets use my own definition:

Sext (v.) sek-st (gerund or present partible: sexting) // The act of exchanging sexually explicit messages via e-mail, text message or instant message, which may or may not include photographs or video, and typically results in masturbation and/or ejaculation. 

There are various levels of severity in the act of sexting, a Hierarchy of Sexting, if you will. These are levels of flirtation and [mostly*] mutual sexual stimulation, one of which I am sure you will find yourself an affiliate. *Sometimes it’s more amusing than arousing.

Hierarchy of Sexting
1.  Suggestive wording, exchange of innuendos // rating: one sploosh emoji
2.  Graphic explanation of sexual fantasy // rating: two sploosh emoji
3.  All of the above, accompanied by audiovisual enhancements // rating: three sploosh emoji 

*Please note: with the exception of example No. 1, masturbation is implied.

Speaking of that naughty m-word… can we all stop acting shy about masturbation already? This is not the Victorian era. It’s not hush-hush. We all do it. And we all have sex. It’s a big part of our lives. Even if we end up imprisoned or homeless, it’s one thing they can’t take away from us without removing our hands. We should discuss it, like anything else. It sure beats talking about the weather. 

“8 Inches of snow? In Colorado? WTF?” 

More like, “8 inches of cock? In my pussy? WTF!”

And what about porn preferences? While dick pics are indeed ammo for my arsenal, I obviously prefer to use video for inspiration. I mean, who doesn’t enjoy watching a movie? And since we discuss our opinions of other genres in great length, why not share our thoughts and feelings on this variety of entertainment? What‘s your flavor? Bukakke? Gang bangs? Lesbian porn? Cuckhold, P.O.V., interracial? Threesomes, foursomes, moresomes? Amateur or professional? What site do you use? Do you prefer enjoying porn solo, with a friend, or both? Enquiring minds want to know. 

My likes, you may query? Since you ask, I will oblige. I say no to aggressive gang bangs, Asian porn where the girls cry like babies, and close-ups of cock n’ balls bangin’ doggy style. Anal ain’t my bag, and I’m not a fan of watching golden showers, although personally I’ve never tried this act. MILFs teaching teens is hilarious, as is the guy who humps blow up pool toys, those people who rub one off with their thrift store fur coat, or people who sit on balloons. 

I might honestly be the only creep to think this way, although I prefer to think I’m just the only person to shamelessly say it out loud. Sexting, masturbation, porn: it’s just a part of life these days, whether we aggressively inserts ourselves into it, or ease it in… like a gentleman. 

Bald + Beard = Boner

Call me a creep but, typically, when I see a guy with a beard walk by, I can't help but fantasize about sitting on his face and just suffocating that fucker. Similarly, when I see a bald guy walk by, I can't help but think that I'd like to sit on his head. No, not his face, you heard me right: his head. His. Entire. Head. Where you see a monotonous bald man, I see a monstrous dildo and daydream about a perfect world… where I’m worn like a pair of ear muffs. 
As the proud owner of a sick and sullied mind, I sometimes get a little flustered when I see a pleasantly phallic bald head gleaming alluringly across the room. Not only will a testosterone-laden bald man bang the shit out of you, but bald heads simply look like huge cocks, especially when Bic'd and slicked. Perhaps this is why I like pulling a man’s hair so much: I’m trying to accelerate his male pattern baldness.
If I see a man whose head and body resembles a huge walking/talking shaft; and I am therefore forced to think about him head-fucking me; then I'm the pervert? Me? You're the one walking around with your dick hanging out and trying to seduce me. You obviously want me to fantasize about mounting you like a spider monkey ascending a tree; perching myself atop your cranium; shimmying downward, and having you wear me like a helmet. Meanwhile, I’d relive childhood glories and treat your head like a goddamned Sit n’ Spin — my favorite toy as a youngster.
With that frighteningly graphic image firmly in place, now seems like a good time to clarify that there’s no way I could fit a skull in my cock socket. And, in an effort for complete disclosure, I'm one thumb short of having ever been fisted. However, I have a sneaking suspicion that there is already a market for this kind of thing. Porn has taught us that women try to shove, stuff, and cram all kinds of crazy shit into their junk drawer — cucumbers, wine bottles, horse schlongs, etc. — so I'm sure a human head is not that big of a [ahem] stretch. Plus, there are probably more than a few men with some sort of Freudian “I want to fuck my mom” reverse-birthing fetish. In the rotten brains of sexual beings, anything is possible. Consider this piece of writing Exhibit A. 
Like I said earlier, big ol' sexy man beards make me want to sit on faces until I get whisker burns on my inner thighs and can’t wear jeans for a week. Men with beards are manly; they inspire images of brawny, aggressive lumberjacks who'll steal you away to the mountains and ravage you with some serious wood. And a bald man who also has a beard? Don’t even get me started on that combo. 
A basic Google search finds that these two of my many obsessions: bald heads and beards, are legitimate fetishes. Peladophilia is known as the obsession with/arousal from a person’s bald head; and pogonophilia is the obsession with/arousal from a beard. The fact that these definitions even exist makes me believe that I might not really be as crazy as I sound. I mean, I don’t know how many others out there feel exactly the same way as I do, but it’s both alarming and comforting to know there may just be a support group for me somewhere out there.

We’re whores

 
Twenty-nine percent of men in the U.S. report having 15 or more female sexual partners in a lifetime, while only 9 percent of women report having sex with 15 or more partners, indicates a 2007 survey conducted by the National Center for Health Statistics.

Findings also conclude that, on average, men have seven sexual partners in their lifetime, compared with four sexual partners for women.

Are you fucking kidding me?

Says who?

Granted, the news articles based on this report include no statistics on exactly who was responding to their survey — we know not their age, race, religion, class or even country. But these figures simply CAN NOT be accurate (I‘m spelling that word wrong to make a point, so suck it.) Now, I’m not an unabashed cum-guzzling, jizz-mopping, tea-bagging, penis receptacle; but I think it goes without saying: I’ve had a few dicks in me. Plus, I know a lot of women who blow the roof off the mother fucker when it comes to being a gap-toting slutbag, so I think I’m free of full-blown trollop status. And, even if tons of people marry their high school sweethearts, and/or have relationships that last 5-10 years, wouldn’t the porn stars even out the prudes? What, they didn’t survey any?

I find it more than a little concerning that these stats come from a division of the Center for Disease Control. I would imagine the CDC actually knows what they’re talking about. You’d think the government would have the best technology and the most honest statistics available. Or, maybe this is a huge conspiracy. Perchance the National Center for Health Statistics is secretly funded by the religious right, whose goal is to interview limited subjects, and publish false findings, in an overall effort to curb sexual activity! *insert dramatic sigh here* Well if so, good luck, The Man, I’m pretty sure sex will always win — in any battle.

I’m also curious what the Center means when they say the results were obtained “using high-tech methods to solicit candid answers on sexual activity.” Did they bug my bra or something? I don’t care how high-tech the methods were, and how frank the responses, I’d say a fair amount of people lied about their answers. Who replies honestly when a complete stranger asks about their personal business? (Besides me and a few other shamelessly sluttastic individuals, that is.) I feel like a great deal of people must, for some reason or another, be embarrassed about their sex lives and, consequently, fib about fucking as many fools as they have.

Pulling rank

So, what makes 15 the magic number? If I were to draw a line in the sand, I’d say a solid 50 cocks marks a slut (although that’s probably because that number seems so far from my own guesstimate.) These audacious facts have encouraged me to create a pecker -ahem- pecking order in terms of sex and the modern woman.

Here you have it, the Hierarchy or Whoredom:

     Porn star 15++++

     Prostitute 15+++

     Slut/whore 15++

     Single/sexually liberal 15+

     Prude/serial monogamist 0-14

You can determine where you place on this list; but, please, don’t be ashamed of your status. In some states it's still illegal to be on top; give a blow job; take it up the ass; or even pair patent leather shoes with a skirt. If you aren’t scared of the police knocking down your door, you shouldn’t be scared of what other people think. But, in the end, it’s your business and no one else’s… unless, of course, you talk about sex and dicks and such as a leisurely pursuit, like someone you all know.

Since these statistics are seemingly nonsense — and as a result of no demographics being released along with the fraudulent findings — I took a little survey of my own. In my research, I surveyed women between the ages of 20 and 50, who are either married or single, and of all sexual orientations. And, as it turns out, the whore’s have it! My survey of 65 women found that 44 “ladies,” or 68%, have fucked 15 or more partners. Meanwhile, 21 refined females, or 32% of respondents, have lain with less than 15.

And, apparently, every man is a whore (shocking). Either that, or they’re all liars, since only one man admitted to having slept with less than 15 partners. For shame! Married, under 15 sexual partners, and NO diseases before the age of 30? How dare you be a civilized non-man-whore! And in the year 2012, no less? Psh! (To be fair, I think those men who had scored with under 15 women simply didn’t answer.)

And, you may be wondering why I didn‘t include gay men in my findings. From the few responses I gathered, I’ve concluded that their ranking system is far different than my own. The lifestyles of some gay men represent 2012’s approach to free love and loose principles and, I must say, I admire them for that. They’ve revamped the social norms and stigmas attached to sex. Why aren’t heterosexuals less uptight about sex? Or maybe the majority of us are...

In conclusion, it seems the 44 nameless sluts I studied disprove the theory that the average woman has slept with but four men. So, maybe we’re not complete whores (assuming that I‘m one of the many skanks discrediting this theory): we don’t charge; we use protection; and we won’t get you arrested. And, who determines what makes a slutty whorebag, anyway? 15 P’s in the VG? Eh, NBD. In this day and age, 15 men in your cock chamber in one lifetime ain’t shit. And, if 15 men makes a whore, then wear that scarlet A proudly, you buncha bitches. Say it loud, say it proud, “I’m a whore!” I know most of you wear that badge with your head high — either that, or I only choose to consort with harlots. On that note, let’s end this piece with some priceless quotes from a few of the loose slots I surveyed:

“If over 15 is a slut, I’m a dirty whore!”

“You know my answer... It's true... I'm a dirty, filthy, nasty slutbag whore…”

And, my favorite response, “In my whole life, or this year?”

If you ask, they’ll whip it out.

  Flub. His pink, flaccid, ginger pube-concealed dong flopped into his hand, as the two men on either side of me quickly turned their heads, uncomfortably averted their eyes, and focused on smoking their cigarettes. I’ll be damned, it worked again. I unleashed my usual response: throwing my head back, cackling, and pointing at the saggy little spring roll.

It wasn’t necessarily the size of it that made me chuckle, or that it appeared softer than a marshmallow, but the fact that this stranger actually had the balls to hang dong on demand. (And the fact that he looked like Simple Jack from Tropic Thunder didn’t much help me contain my laughter.) He shrugged, stuffed his sad, wilted, wiener back inside his frayed denim shorts, and walked away — surprisingly unscathed by the incident. Yes… this is how I sometimes choose to pass the time.

My question for Simple Jack, and the forthcoming others who have complied to my request, is this: What did you expect? Me to start stroking it and stuffing it into my mouth in front of everyone? Of course I’m going to laugh at a limp penis in public, who the hell wouldn’t? And, for fuck’s sake, why wouldn’t you at least slap some sense into it before showing it off?

Let’s just make a rule: If it isn’t at half-mast, or at least shows signs of curiosity, keep it in your pants (whether I ask you to take it out or not). I’m not getting my hand, mouth, or otherwise near that sucker until there‘s a sign of life. Trust me, you’ll be doing yourself a favor, showing off a drooping noodle isn’t going to get you anywhere. Actually, nothing is going to get you anywhere because my goal in asking a man to whip it out is only A.) to see if he will, and B.) because its fucking hilarious. You may be wondering why I do this for pleasure. I’m sick in the head, I won’t be coy. I do wonder whether I’m the only person flirting with dick-disaster, but, unlike masturbation, there aren’t articles in teen magazines informing you that the act of asking people to pull out their dicks is completely normal. Don’t worry, everyone does it.

It was about six years ago when I first asked a sloppily drunk man to whip it out with the intention of mocking his intoxicated demeanor. (Read: just to fuck with him.) I remember it like it was yesterday: Baseball cap, polo shirt, and… dare I suggest khaki shorts? The sorry excuse for a douche bag unzipped his zipper, pulled it out and let it sag down from the front of his pants. For five minutes he casually stood there with his hands in his pockets and his meat hanging out of his zipper. It was almost as if he forgot it was visible. He casually carried on a conversation with my friend — so casually, in fact, that she didn’t even notice his prick until she saw myself and another girl pointing at his crotch and practically peeing ourselves out of hysteria.

On another occasion, a random man pulled it out on a crowded dance floor. In this case, I had been talking to him for maybe two minutes, and that puppy was out before I finished the sentence. Please note, I didn’t say question, I said sentence. I don’t even ask them to, I simply suggest, “Let’s see your dick.”

I guess I probably lead them on; but, shit, it’s only a proposition. I don’t recall signing a contract. And, although I am clearly to blame for encouraging these three examples of disturbing public exhibition, I‘ve never suggested a man hang dong and been denied.

So what’s their motivation? Do they simply enjoy showing it off? Are they just confident? Is it because these certain individuals never get the chance to show a woman their dick? Do they need feedback on the size, shape and color? Do they actually think the outcome will be a hand job/blow job/etc.? Whatever your reasons, power to ya, shameless dick showers. You had me at flub.

I‘m a dick grabber

I’m not sure whether or not you read the fine print, but if I know you, and you’re a man — be you friend, acquaintance or mere passer-by — I will most likely grab your cock at some point in time. Consider this your dick disclaimer. It’s not that I’m a complete pervert (it is), or that I’m coming on to you (I am), or even that I’m just trying to make you uncomfortable (totally); it’s that we clearly had an unwritten arrangement and in this state verbal agreements are legally binding.

The Witness:

Back in a previous slut stage — I am currently wedged between stages four and five — I awoke to a stranger and later pondered how someone so drunk (moi) was able to seal the deal effectively, if not skillfully. It took an eye-witness to bring me to the realization that, when I binge drink liquid courage, I straight-up seize a handful of schlong without hesitation. Is that such a crime? Bam! Your junk done got grasped. Whatcha gonna do about it? No, seriously… any thoughts on that?

The Crime:

I guess when it comes down to it, this is downright sexual harassment, and I should probably take a moment to thank everyone for thus far not suing me: thank you. But also, is it that bad to have someone caress or clasp your package? Shit, I’m cute. Is it that invasive? Yes? Well, fuck you, have we met? This is just me: sick, wrong and fabulously so. People are quick to either love me or hate me, so if you’re still around at this point you already know I’m a psychotic, crazy, asshole and you’ve come to terms with that fact. So let’s embrace the dick-grabbage, shall we? Everybody loves a semi.

The Motives:

Sizing you up

Perhaps this bothers you because you’re concerned I’m going to out you for having a baby dong. Well, if so, get over it. There’s a reason women know that the distance from the tip of one’s outspread thumb to the tip of the pointer finger is six inches, and the distance from wrist to elbow is a foot. And that the difference between the circumference of a loop made with one’s pointer finger and thumb, compared to one’s middle finger and thumb, is the difference of about an inch in girth. Don’t make us just eyeball it, let us measure that sucker. I’m up for leaving things to the imagination, but sometimes you just gotta know what you’re working with… or maybe you’re just trying to inspire the person.

Throwing it out there

Even when sizing it up is not the motive, it couldn’t hurt to throw it out there, right? If a flirtatious embrace happens to result in some sort of physical reaction, what’s the harm in that? I once tapped a guy in the nuts three times in a row and he had to leave the bar and go home for fear of growing a garden snake. This ballsy, so to speak, approach seems to signify, hey, I’m comfortable touching your penis. So, like… maybe I should… and maybe you want me to… more… later… I think so. Or, Oh, weird, what does thing do? Let’s find out. But maybe you don’t even want to get it on; maybe you’re just drunk and attempting to amuse yourself.

For the hell of it

Sometimes I’ll drunkenly grab the man piece of one of my close male friends just to fuck with him. But at least one of them grabs my tits for his amusement, so screw it. And be wary, homosexual men, you are not safe from my charming molestation. Once I felt up a gay guy and then laughingly pointed and shouted, “That was squishy!” Fast forward to me telling that story to a friend the next morning: “… and that was the second penis I couldn’t get hard that night…” (God damn it.)

Because I’m totally shit-faced (implied in each category)

I mean, c’mon, it’s not like I’m doing this while sober (typically). If I’m snatching man-meat, or “monkey junk,” as one friend puts it, I’m clearly incoherent and without acknowledgment of any degree of ethics or morality. Give me a few drinks and I’m like a malnourished orangutan, purposefully clutching a bunch of bananas and clumsily shoving them towards my mouth.

The Verdict:

Is this behavior appropriate? No. Have I ever claimed to be appropriate? No. Will I ever be appropriate? I wouldn’t bet on it. So, if you have an affinity for poor decisions like I do, I recommend you try this method. The worst that could happen is you’ll get punched right in the face. And, hey, if not, you may even get some action.

You cannot call the person you live with your roommate if you don’t have a room in the house.

I once hung out with a cute, stylish guy who was couch surfing at his friend’s house and had no plans of leaving or contributing to the household in the immediate future. I didn’t put this together at first, as we weren’t banging. But I can tell you this much: The moment he tried to make a move on me on that couch, in my drunken stupor, I suddenly realized there were only two bedrooms in the house and three inhabitants. It didn’t add up, and I realized I was the girl who was allegedly ok with getting it on in the living room. Perhaps the only thing worse than a leech with no intention of leaving, is the slut bag not bothered by this arrangement. That was the last night I saw him, I escaped that scenario immediately.

In an effort to offer complete disclosure and context to my feelings on this issue, I should clarify that I did — once — sleep with someone on a couch in a living room after a long night of partying. A skanky mosaic of a sex scene, this interaction occurred in awkward snippets, as his so-called “roommates” walked to the kitchen and the bathroom throughout the wee hours of the morning. When the sun began to rise, its rays shone through the hippie tapestry being used as curtains. At this point, I noticed his battered backpack on the floor and I realized that I had just fucked a “technically homeless” man on a stranger’s couch.

Mates, each with a room

I couldn’t blame the pseudo-hobo completely for my serious lack of suspicion. So, like the majority of my slutscapades, I blame my actions on naivety and complete denial… that paired with the use of drugs and/or alcohol. I was obviously hammered enough to not question when we were going to advance to a unkempt bedroom, dirty boy-bathroom or even a fucking closet at some point. However, upon hearing one mention his or her “roommates,” you sort of assume the person speaking pays rent and has an actual room in a house (and, apparently, that they’re so turned on by you they simply cannot force themselves to pause ten seconds and move to another room, as was clearly the case.)

It comes down to this: I honestly don’t care if you’re a couch surfer. Whether you’re traveling, or need to save money, or have some other reason for doing so, that’s your prerogative. And who‘s to say I won‘t be in the same a position at some point? The ways things are going, I‘m likely lingering toward life on a loveseat. However, you can’t call someone your roommate if you don’t have a room in the house. The word roommate says it all: mates, each with a room. If this is not the arrangement, they are the host and you are their guest.

It seems to me that the relationship between a host and a couch surfer somewhat parallels the relationship between a host cell and the virus or parasite that drains it of energy and resources, such as nourishment and shelter. At this point I will put on my nerd glasses and observe the relationship from a biologist’s point of view. *Note: If you are or have ever been a couch surfer, I am not calling you a parasite/virus; I am simply comparing and contrasting two types of hosts. Don’t blame me, this is science talking.

The Hostess with the mostess

Primary/definitive host. If the parasite is lucky, it has a primary, or definitive host. This cell, or in our case, person, allows the virus to reach maturity (in some cases a contradiction in terms) and, if applicable, reproduce sexually (most likely on their “roommates” couch.) This means the person serving as the host is willing to provide shelter until it’s guest has gotten his or her shit together (an admirable characteristic of a true friend). This person is also comfortable with the fact that it's visitor will most likely attempt to nest and at some point ejaculate on its sofa — assuming, of course, it finds someone who is attracted to parasites and, therefore, getting nailed on a rust-colored, crumb- and pet hair-covered couch while scenes from Family Guy flicker romantically on the plasma screen.

Secondary/intermediate host. In terms of the host, it’s a wise idea to serve as only a secondary or intermediate host. This person harbors its visitor only for a brief, transitional period — perhaps allowing its guest to crash for a week or two while the person finds either a job, or girlfriend, or other sponsor to exhaust of its assets and mental wellbeing. I’d imagine this host doesn’t require rent or help with utilities, but simply offers it’s guest a safe place to get one’s affairs in order — an ideal situation for both parties.

Dead-end host. Then there’s a dead-end host, most likely a bigger parasite than the one seeking assistance, albeit one with a lease. This kind of host prevents its guest from completing its development, and will likely encourage toxic behavior. “Don’t have a bed? Fuck it; you can sleep on my forest green papasan chair if you slang this coke for me.” A dead-end host may be more dangerous than living on the streets, as such an environment does not allow for growth and progress.

In the end

So, is a couch surfer a deal breaker? Not necessarily. You cannot judge a person’s character based simply upon their dwellings. Everyone needs a little help sometimes and, as friends, it’s our job to provide assistance to those who would do the same for us. Plus, I’ll take a couch over a cardboard box any day; beggars can’t be choosers.

If you have a shirtless photo taken in a mirror with a camera phone, and you're not gay, then... wait, you're totally gay, huh?

Chances are pretty good that half of your male gay friends between the ages of 18 and 30 have one (or 136) photo(s) of themselves flexing, without a shirt, taken in a mirror (oft-times in a bathroom or closet) with their camera phone. The shameless shirtless self photo shoot is as gay as glitter and, if you live in Denver, as gay as Thursday night.

I would argue that the gays have stolen this and made this their own, along with the rainbow, and Uptown. What I can do without, however, is straight men attempting this technique. It’s funny how this look only offends me when the person taking the photo is someone I could possibly consider having sex with (whether I’d have to be drunk off my ass or not).

Another time this look fails is when straight women share practically nude photos of themselves and gather them in albums labeled “Modeling.” Just because some creep talked you into dressing scandalously and greasing up for his photographic and pornographic pleasure, doesn’t mean you should post 45 nearly identical photos of yourself wearing lingerie, and licking a lollipop with a come hither stare. If these photos are in a magazine or advertisement, you’re a model. If your photos are in some guy’s spank bank, you’re just undressing for a pervert with a camera. There’s a thin line between self-promotion and self-exploitation.

If you’re wondering whether you should be sharing photos of you topless and in the mirror, I’ve made a simple little equation for you:

Gay = OK; Not Gay = No Way

I can’t describe what it is exactly that makes this photo procedure so wrong on a straight man. Featuring a straight man, these pictures seem silly, vain, hilarious; while when depicting a gay man, the photos are sexy, confident, flirtatious. Why is it that gay men can get away with this when straight men cannot? It could be because, in my eyes, the gays can do no wrong — they can pull off a mesh neon tank top, and they can pull off the rightfully-confident-look-at-my-sexy-body pic.

I’m unabashedly obsessed with gay men. My fantasy is to one day marry a homosexual male (insert dream sequence fuzz). We would have an impeccably decorated house, host amazing cocktail parties, spend our days shopping, have our own separate sex lives, and share all of the dirty details over martinis and Scrabble. I can see it now: My homo-husband and I are laying beside the fire in matching “OMG” monogrammed silk pajamas (his pink, mine blue), watching Mean Girls, playing the popular word game, and gossiping about our latest mistakes. I’d would play the word “fellatio” on a triple word score. “48 points, biotch!” “Whore!“ he’d respond. Then, spilling my drink, I fumble for the remote, “Girl, it was this big!” to which my husband would reply, “Aw, heeeeyyy!” and we’d cheers, leaving practically no drinks left in our glasses, and calling the dog over to lick the booze off our $1,500 dollar rug.

I can’t get enough of the half-nekkid photos that gay men promote themselves with. I find them horribly amusing, and seeing as I’m a total pervert, a free show. As I walk through life, I basically check out everyone: men, women, grandfathers, baby daddies, grocery store checkers, your mom, security guards, department store santas, preschool teachers, sluts, and so on. I’m like a construction worker, except I don’t wear hunter orange, have less of a gut, and do not have a penchant for the arrogant ability to shout out things that could make even a sexual predator cringe (instead I say these things under my breathe to anyone who is within ear-shot of a whisper.)